“In the long run, the pessimist may be proved right, but the optimist has a better time on the trip.” -Ms. Cox (via indulgemektay)
I’m not usually a fan of uploading personal pics, but my interest in this latest fetish feels compelling enough.
The rope events are in ft. laudy, so it’s hard to make them, but last time one of the “teachers” of the event offered to tie me up in a predicament bondage bit with his sub (she’s the black legging knee’d bit next to me). Basically we’re both bound and semi-suspended in the air with each other’s weight to battle/balance with. In predicament bondage no position is favorable or remotely comfortable. We lasted about 5 minutes before I caved and asked (with a whimper) to be released.
These events have been very educational, and eye opening. If you’ve been interested in exploring any kind of fetish I’d definitely recommend that you check out what kind of events the fetish community in your area is hosting. With at least all the events I’ve attended, no one engages in “explicitly” sexual acts (as in no one gives head, fingers, etc), and everyone is extremely welcoming of newbies to the scene. People keep their respectful distance, and no one touches you without consent.
It’s neat. Check it out for yourself! No seas pendeja.
Ken Kesey, One Flew Over The Cuckoo’s Nest (via theycallmenjs)
I’ve had this book sitting in my box of unreads for a year now. It’s one of those that I pick up regularly with every intent then put it down for every casual reason that comes to mind. Putting together a list of December reads right now though…